Standard Deviation by Katherine Heiny

Graham Cavanaugh’s second wife, Audra, is everything his first wife was not. She considers herself privileged to live in the age of the hair towel, talks non-stop through her epidural, labour and delivery, invites the doorman to move in and the eccentric members of their son’s Origami Club to Thanksgiving. She is charming and spontaneous and fun but life with her can be exhausting.

In the midst of the day-to-day difficulties and delights of marriage and raising a child with Asperger’s, his first wife, Elspeth, reenters Graham’s life. Former spouses are hard to categorize – are they friends, enemies, old flames, or just people who know you really, really well? Graham starts to wonder: How can anyone love two such different women? Did he make the right choice? Is there a right choice?

What's it about?

A man tries to navigate life while caught between his extrovert wife, his neurodivergent son, and his ex-wife.

What is it?

An engaging, insightful and funny book about love.

What isn't it?

Plot-driven. Things happen, but this is character-driven exploration territory. Don't expect a grand resolution.

Why do you recommend it?

Because it's genuinely funny. If you appreciate books with an eye for the tragedies and absurdities of everyday life, this is for you. I loved it.

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Where'd You Go Bernadette? by Maria Semple.

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